Familiarity breeds contempt
Expressions researched:
"familiarity breeds contempt"
|"familiarity that breeds contempt"
|"Familiarity sometimes breeds contempt"
Srimad-Bhagavatam
SB Canto 3
Viśrambheṇa means "with intimacy," but it must not be familiarity that breeds contempt.
SB 3.23.2, Purport: A man's psychology and woman's psychology are different. As constituted by bodily frame, a man always wants to be superior to his wife, and a woman, as bodily constituted, is naturally inferior to her husband. Thus the natural instinct is that the husband wants to post himself as superior to the wife, and this must be observed. Even if there is some wrong on the part of the husband, the wife must tolerate it, and thus there will be no misunderstanding between husband and wife. Viśrambheṇa means "with intimacy," but it must not be familiarity that breeds contempt. According to the Vedic civilization, a wife cannot call her husband by name. In the present civilization the wife calls her husband by name, but in Hindu civilization she does not. Thus the inferiority and superiority complexes are recognized. Damena ca: a wife has to learn to control herself even if there is a misunderstanding. Sauhṛdena vācā madhurayā means always desiring good for the husband and speaking to him with sweet words. A person becomes agitated by so many material contacts in the outside world; therefore, in his home life he must be treated by his wife with sweet words.
Page Title: | Familiarity breeds contempt |
Compiler: | Visnu Murti, Labangalatika |
Created: | 15 of Dec, 2008 |
Totals by Section: | BG=0, SB=4, CC=2, OB=1, Lec=3, Con=4, Let=1 |
No. of Quotes: | 15 |