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[[Category:Questions asked to Srila Prabhupada]]
[[Category:Questions asked to SP... 1977]]
[[Category:Questions On... Sex, Sexuality, Celibacy]]
[[Category:Questions On... Regulated Life, Regulative Principles]]
[[Category:Questions From... Journalists, Reporters, Writers]]
[[Category:Prabhupada Speaks - Room Conversations, 1966 - 1977]]
[[Category:Prabhupada Speaks - Room Conversations, 1977]]
[[Category:Prabhupada Speaks - in India, Bombay]]
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<div id="1977_Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" class="sub_section" sec_index="10" parent="Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" text="1977 Conversations and Morning Walks"><h3>1977 Conversations and Morning Walks</h3>
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<div id="InterviewwithMrKoshiAsstEditorofTheCurrentWeeklyApril51977Bombay_0" class="quote" parent="1977_Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" book="Con" index="130" link="Interview with Mr. Koshi (Asst. Editor of The Current Weekly) -- April 5, 1977, Bombay" link_text="Interview with Mr. Koshi (Asst. Editor of The Current Weekly) -- April 5, 1977, Bombay">
<div class="heading">Yes. Just like only for begetting nice children... Good children means not these rogues and thieves, but one who can understand God. That is good children... Garbhādhāna-saṁskāra. These are stated. It is not secret matter. When the father goes to beget child, he has to perform ritualistic ceremonies in the presence of relative, brāhmaṇas. They will understand that "He is going now to beget a child." It is not a secret thing. It is garbhādhāna. And if in a brāhmaṇa family the garbhādhāna-saṁskāra is not observed, then immediately he becomes a śūdra.
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<span class="link">[[Vanisource:Interview with Mr. Koshi (Asst. Editor of The Current Weekly) -- April 5, 1977, Bombay|Interview with Mr. Koshi (Asst. Editor of The Current Weekly) -- April 5, 1977, Bombay]]: </span><div class="text"><p style="display: inline;">Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Śrīla Prabhupāda, I wanted to suggest that if he has some further questions, we could try to answer them, and then if there is still some unanswered...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No. He has no answer on this spiritual matter. He'll ask me some political... We have no function in politics.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: No, there was a few other questions regarding the Society.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: The fundamental principle is that we are teaching about the owner of the body.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: Yeah, but what we are in the outside world... I am not in the Society. What I see outside is totally... You see, when I see a group of young people like these boys here dancing in the street, it is something jarring to my eyes. I am not used to it. What is the necessity for the chant and the...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That is going on. One man's food, another man's poison.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: No, no, there is a purpose behind it.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Purpose... That is the way. That is the way.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: To?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: To spiritual understanding in this age. Ecstasy. Śravaṇaṁ kīrtanaṁ viṣṇoḥ ([[Vanisource:SB 7.5.23-24|SB 7.5.23]]). You have to follow the Vedic injunctions. Kṛṣṇotkīrtana-gāna-nartana-parau. Utkīrtana-gāna-nartana-parau.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: So by looking at him you are trying to rouse the interests of the people, or curiosity?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: You can take interest in so many ways. If you are not interested in that way, read books. Are you not interested in reading books? Read. We have got many ways. That is for mass of people. The class of people who wants to understand this movement through science, philosophy, come on, read these books.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: One of the conditions is illicit sex.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: That is sinful. Don't you see, illicit sex, what havoc it has done?</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: What exactly do you mean?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Illicit sex, do you think it is...?</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: Outside marriage, you mean?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Not only outside marriage. Even in marriage, you cannot have sex as you like. You must have sex according to the regulative principle or religious principle.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: Could you explain?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Just like only for begetting nice children.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: For begetting?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Nice children.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Good children.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: What is the meaning of good children?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Good children means not these rogues and thieves, but one who can understand God. That is good children.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: It is the parents' responsibility.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Garbhādhāna-saṁskāra. These are stated. It is not secret matter. When the father goes to beget child, he has to perform ritualistic ceremonies in the presence of relative, brāhmaṇas. They will understand that "He is going now to beget a child." It is not a secret thing. It is garbhādhāna. And if in a brāhmaṇa family the garbhādhāna-saṁskāra is not observed, then immediately he becomes a śūdra.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: What is not a secret thing?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Secret... Just like when we go and have sex with wife secretly. It is not secret.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: There is a ceremony.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. This is ceremony.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: Don't you think that the children should be given freedom to choose voluntarily?</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Do you want to give freedom to your children?</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: I am asking you.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: No, no. What is the use of giving freedom to a child with a razor? He will cut his throat, that's all.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: But at a later age, perhaps when he is better...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Later age, yes. That is enjoined. When child is sixteen years old he can do as he likes, not before that.</p>
:lālayet pañca varṣāṇi
:daśa varṣāṇi tāḍayet
:prāpte tu ṣoḍaśe varṣe
:putraṁ mitravad ācaret
<p>This is the moral instruction of Cāṇakya Paṇḍita. Up to five years, don't chastise, don't take any action. Let him be free. Whatever he likes, he can do. Then after fifth year, for ten years you must be very strict. Then five years and ten years, fifteen. And when he is sixteen years, treat him like a friend. Prāpte tu ṣoḍaśe varṣe putraṁ mitravad ācaret. At that time, no stricture that he will break. "My dear boy, if you do this..." This is necessary. And from fifth year to fifteenth year you should chastise the sons and disciples just like tiger. After five years.</p>
<p>Mr. Koshi: Using the stick.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes.</p>
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