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<div id="Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" class="section" sec_index="5" parent="compilation" text="Conversations and Morning Walks"><h2>Conversations and Morning Walks</h2>
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<div id="1968_Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" class="sub_section" sec_index="1" parent="Conversations_and_Morning_Walks" text="1968 Conversations and Morning Walks"><h3>1968 Conversations and Morning Walks</h3>
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<div class="heading">She should not have gone like that. If she did not like, she should have frankly told me. This is not good.
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<span class="link">[[Vanisource:Room Conversation about Marriage -- September 24, 1968, Seattle|Room Conversation about Marriage -- September 24, 1968, Seattle]]: </span><div class="text"><p style="display: inline;">Prabhupāda: Oh yes. Everyone. Saṅkīrtana means assembly. Bahubhir militva kirtayatiti saṅkīrtanaḥ. That is the derivation. When many people assemble together and chant, that is called saṅkīrtana. If you alone chant, that is called kīrtana. And when you chant in assembly that is called saṅkīrtana.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: I think that what we'll do is take her along, and if it does not work out properly, then she can go to San Francisco. There are a lot of brahmacārīṇis there.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Yes. Yes. And what about this girl?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Dīna-tāritā.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Dīna-tāritā has gone. She is coming back?</p>
<p>Devotee (1): We don't know yet. We don't know where she went. She didn't call us or leave any word.</p>
<p>Devotee (2): Very, very unexpected.</p>
<p>Revatīnandana: She walked out with a sack and said she was going to do wash in a big knapsack and then she never came back.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: She should not have gone like that. If she did not like, she should have frankly told me. This is not good.</p>
<p>Madhudviṣa: She was in correspondence with her brother, and her brother was had some problems with drugs, taking intoxicants, drugs, and she wanted him to come to Kṛṣṇa consciousness and she was talking about sending him money to have him come to Seattle. So that made us think that she might have gone to San Francisco to try to bring her brother to Kṛṣṇa consciousness. But she...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: If that is her idea, that's good, but why did not tell us? That "I am going to my brother's." Nobody would have forbidden her. She has taken some money?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Two hundred... How much was it?</p>
<p>Nara-Nārāyaṇa: There was 200 dollars that... She was going to take 25 and send to her brother. The 200 dollars is not... No one knows where it is now. It has not appeared. And she had 30 dollars about of her own money. And this 200 dollars belonged to another girl that was going to give it to Upendra dāsa for the temple.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Temple. It was left on the table. Now no one can find it.</p>
<p>Nara-Nārāyaṇa: No one knows where it is now. So she may have taken this 200 dollars.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Then it is guessed that she has taken?</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: Yes, it is guessed that she has taken.</p>
<p>Naranarayan: Uh...</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: We don't know for sure, but the money is not there.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: The money is not there, she is not there. So the natural conclusion... (laughter)</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: I don't think this would have happened if she could have come on kīrtana. I don't think it would have happened. But what could I do? I mean, I told her. It was not... You see what I mean? There was... This is a problem because it is... This kīrtana is very nice for the women. They like to come on it very much. It immediately engages them. The first day they come into the temple they can come out with us. Yet it's difficult because...</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Difficulty is that... If the women get married, then there is no difficulty.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: No. But if they don't get married. When they are offered... Here is a woman. She was offered and... You see? It was suggested that she get married and because of her body she said no. She thinks she is, you know, she... That's the only reason she could say no, because material reason. Not spiritual reason. She said no because of her preference, material preference.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: Of course, so long we have got this material body, some material consideration must be there. (chuckles) That is not possible to avoid completely.</p>
<p>Devotee (1): They shouldn't force her to get married, though. That was kind of a bad choice that they gave her, "Either get married or don't come on saṅkīrtana." You can't force somebody.</p>
<p>Tamāla Kṛṣṇa: No, that wasn't the situation. It was not that choice.</p>
<p>Devotee (1): What? You can't... I mean to say that you can't force somebody to get married. You know. That isn't proper.</p>
<p>Prabhupāda: There was no force. There was no force. Only proposal. That's all. When it was proposed before me, I also said, "It depends on the choice." So anyway, go on with your work, saṅkīrtana movement you have started. It is very nice. And it is being responded. So increase it. If simply brahmacārīs can do it, that is best.</p>
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