Tul . . . there is a Hindi poet, din kā dakinī rāt kā bāghinī pālak pālak rahu cuse, duniyā sab bhora hoye, ghara ghara bāghinī pūṣe It is actual for the materialistic person that there is an animal, din ka ḍākinī, at . . . and during daytime she is witch, and at night she is tigress. So din kā dakinī rāt kā bāghinī pālak pālak rahu cuse. The witches, they also, by their black art, they suck the blood of children. Do you know that? There are witches. You know? I am asking Svarūpa Dāmodara. The kāmākhya witches, from the black art. That Pūtanā was like that. They suck the blood of children by some mantra. So din kā ḍākinī, rāt kā bāghinī. It is pointing out to one's wife, during daytime she is ḍākinī, witches, and at night she is tigress.
So Tulasī dāsa says that . . . Tulasī dāsa life is very interesting. Therefore he had very bad experience of his wife. Everyone. So bāghinī. Nobody keeps a tigress to suck one's blood, but Tulasī dāsa says, duniyā sab bhora hoye. The whole world, being mad, they keep one tigress. Pālak pālak rahu cuṣe: in every moment, sucking blood. This criticism is for the materialistic person. Those who are spiritually advancing, this criticism does not apply. For materialistic person, this agent of sucking blood is their happiness. Is their happiness. That is the real fact.
Therefore the Vedic system of civilization is seventy-five percent life of celibacy. In the brahmacārī system there is no connection with woman. Student life. Student life, if one remains brahmacārī, he becomes determined. His brain becomes very receptive. Therefore in the brahmacārī system, complete celibacy, no connection with woman. So up to twenty-five years, if he does not discharge semen, he becomes very stout, strong, and his health is built up for whole life, and he becomes so intelligent that anything he will hear, he will remember immediately.
Then after brahmacārī system, if one cannot remain brahmacārī, naiṣṭhika-brahmacārī, then the spiritual master allows him to marry. That is gṛhastha-āśrama. So when one is complete, fit for sex life, he begets children, male children, and after twenty-five years the child becomes grown up, so he retires. In this way, brahmacārī, gṛhastha, vānaprastha and sannyāsa. The whole aim is Viṣṇu, how to go back to home, back to Godhead. Not like . . . living like this, animals. Śva-viḍ-varāhoṣṭra-khara. Not to live. That is not human life.